My cat used to always curl up in my lap when I would settle into a certain chair with a book in hand. Ever since I came back from my latest adventure, he just never stays. I loved it when he would curl up and fall asleep purring in my lap - that's one of the greatest things about cats, in my opinion. I miss those times, and wonder if there's something that I'm just not doing, or something that isn't quite right for my cat. Is there some way I can encourage him to stay? Often it's been a matter of "ignoring" him while he settles in, but this isn't working anymore.